I'd like to introduce you to my youngest daughter, Melanie. She's 35 years old and is retarded, hyperactive, has Mosaic Turner's Syndrome, a behavior disorder, a seizure disorder that she has a VNS for and a left eye prosthesis. She also has a blood disorder called ITP that is presently under control.
    She moved into a group home in February of 2000 and is doing wonderfully. The staff is terrific and she seems to love being there as much as they seem to love having her! Before that, she lived at home. I take her home whenever I can, which isn't half as often as I'd like.
    She started a new work program in September of 2001 that seems to also be going very well. She has a staff ratio of 2:3 which is working out wonderfully. She spends about 15 or 20 minutes in the morning doing a little socializing and then begins her workday. She loves delivering newspapers now that she's settled into the program and her medication is a little more under control and her customers love to see her coming. IPP, her work program, has recently moved to a new location and she's settled right into it. She hasn't been doing the newspaper deliveries lately but other things that she enjoys are  stocking shelves and filling boxes, sorting bottles and cans for recycling or doing a little  janitorial work. She loves tidying up and keeping things put away, (whether they're in the right place or not, lol). She really enjoys her work but doesn't have a very long attention span, so things are always changing. The important part of this program though, is that their clients are always their main concern and they focus on their needs and desires the best that they can. Once a week Melanie goes shopping for food for her lunches for the week. At noon every day, she helps to prepare her lunch and eats unless they decide to go out to eat. After lunch, she sometimes goes swimming, after which she goes back to the home base to have some soda, maybe do a craft, and wait for her transportation back home.
    Everyone who works with her, whether at her home or her workplace, works around her mood of the day, which is wonderful because you never know what it will be. If she's having a good day, she participates in community trips going places like the gym, shopping, dancing, to a restaurant, a park, etc. Since her new work program, she seems to be having many more good days which is wonderful to hear.
    Well, without further ado, I'd like to share with you some poetry that I've written about her and also some of my favorite pictures.
Here she is in her Mr. Roger's shirt...it's her favorite TV program! I wrote and told him so and he sent her this shirt!
Of course, she LOVES Christmas!
Here she is at her last school dance. She loved them! The theme was A Summer Breeze. The year was 1997. She looked beautiful!
MELANIE






A strange feeling comes over me when I'm so tied down
It's one of pride and love and joy, nary a frown
Funny how I can feel so peaceful and content
When others feel that I should resent
The love in my heart they just don't see
Don't see the peace it brings to me
A helpless soul entrusted in my care
Will always and forever be welcomed here
She brings me joy that others can't see
She loves and trusts me unconditionally
She's the ultimate challenge, a rose to me
She has her thorns but also her beauty
She doesn't know of danger or fear
Of time or sorrow or strife when it's near
She'll always be so innocent and sweet
Her impact on my heart can never be beat
Knowing I did my very best
Puts my mind and my soul to rest

Written With Love
By
Mom
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"Nelanie's Mismas Tree"









Here I sit this Christmas Eve so tired and content
I picked my Melanie up today
My daughter heaven sent

How happy she was to see me when I walked in through the door
She squealed with glee and as she did
she jumped around the floor

"Mommy's here" she said and then "Nelanie's going home?"
That's how she says her name.... so cute....
Then out the door she tried to roam

"Hold on there chickadee!" I said, "You need your coat and hat
Your shoes and boots and pocketbook
We can't forget all that!"

"And how about your suitcase? Is that all set?" I said
We need your pills and glasses too!
We can't just leave, instead!"

"All set?" I asked my daughter dear so happy and excited
She squealed again and jumped for joy
"Merry Mismas bodybody!"  sounding so delighted

We got outside into the van when suddenly she blurted
"Where's Nelanie's Mismas tree?" this child of mine did wonder
I quickly answered "It's at home" sensing she'd felt deserted

She had a tree at her 'other home' and thought that would be it
She thought we had to take it with us
So above our presents it could sit

Arriving home, she ran right in
Tried every light and switch
Then I plugged the tree lights in and she donned a great big grin

(Little translations: Nelanie=Melanie, Mismas=Christmas, bodybody=everybody)

©2000 Susan L. Anderson

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Take Flight

Born beneath an angels wings
God sent her to me
In life and love and angels eyes
His precious gift to see

He kept her there close by His side
Angels hovered near
Very special was this child
For me to care for and hold dear

Through the years He stayed with me
To keep her free from harm
Until the day that He did see
That she had grown and should move on

Soar high above those angels wings
My child they'll guide you well
Go ever safely in your flight
Trust in Him whose house you dwell

As she flew she faltered some
Flying from her home
But guided by those angels wings
She now is soaring on her own

I know they'll always be her guide
Those angels from above
For they were sent to her from God
Born of His great love

Love Forever and Ever
Mom
Here she is enjoying my brother's pool in 1999. She loves swimming!
You can learn a little about many of Melanie's afflictions here.
This page was last updated on: May 9, 2011
All poems and pictures are the exclusive property of Susan L. Anderson. Copyright ©1997-2009
Here's Melanie with the rest of my family in Dec. of 2001....
Here's a story I wrote about My Christmas Blessings written Christmas Eve, 2001....
7/5/02
   Here she is on July 5, 2002. We had put her apron on so I could cut her bangs and she has the phone in her hand as usual because she LOVES to talk on it. Whether it's to a real person or not, she carries on a terrific conversation. Sometimes I even have to check to make sure nobody's there! Haha!
4/18/03
Here's Melanie's Achievement Awards Banquet
Come and join my 28th birthday party!
My Sincere Thanks To Bonnie For This Heartwarming Award!
To Melanie's World
Thank you Jade, for this beautiful award!